Charif, who, we
usually call Cat or Cat-Cat, doesn't care about his
appellation; he only speaks feline. Whats more, he has no interest
in his looks, just in his hygiene. However, it's his opinion that our apartment
belongs to him and that within his domain he ought to be able to do
as he pleases. Hes a normal cat.
Our boy uses the
litter 100% of the time. Hes very playful with his favorite toy being a
simple length of rope! Albeit he willingly wrestles with his
stuffed toys, too.
However, he is an
attack cat. Our furball has determined that only the toe footers whom he
recognizers may deign to sit, stand, eat, or breathe in his domain. If anyone
besides Computer Cowboy, Younger Dude or myself enters his space, including our
other children, our grandchildren, or our dearest friends, first our fuzzbucket
hisses, then he growls, and, finally, he swats at the intruders
with his front, right paw.
So, Hubby and I
decided to change our cats reality; we introduced a sibling. This other
moggy, Matucha, is every bit the princess. As soon as she was
carried across our threshold she made it clear that she expected to dictate to
all of our dwellings living beings.
Charif suffered the
most. Anywhere that he had been or was, she wanted to be. His favorite spots,
both the elevated and the hidden ones, were claimed by the newcomer. She
asserted herself on top of our refrigerator. She designated the highest shelf
in any closet that had accidentally been left open as hers. She insisted that
my tallest bookcase belonged to her, too. Whats more, she esteemed that
the depths under Hubs and my bed, the far reaches beneath our living room
sofas, and the wonderful darkness within the box formerly owned by our furry
boy were hers to possess.
Worse, Charifs
hisses, growls, and extended front paw were nothing to her. Rarely did she
growl backmostly, shed just walk away. In fact, repeatedly,
shed try to engage our older mouser in play or cuddles.
Over time, Charif
accepted that his snarls and associated behaviors were ineffective around this
unfamiliar four footer. He grew quieter. He had learned, as well, that his
attempts to prevent her from accessing his spaces or from engaging him were
equally useless. He sulked. He ate less. He slept more.
Time passed. He
became willing to share beds or sofas with the ingrate as long as they slept on
opposite ends.
Yet, the
intruder inched toward him on many occasions. Over a period of
months, Charif began to tolerate Matucha sleeping within a short distance of
him and to put up with her sticking her nose or paw into whichever boxes he
fancied.
Ultimately, he
allowed her to slept literally next to him. Additionally, he began to play with
her. Sometimes, she chases him. Other times, he chases her. There no flattened
ears, hissing, or fur flying. In fact, he trills at her as an invitation to
engage in cat games.
Whereas our furry
princess still believes that our apartment is her province, our furry prince no
longer cares. Hes returned to asserting his right to select spots in
front of windows, specific cat toys and choice human attention. Best, he
tolerates more people touching him, has taken to sniffing, not swatting, at
visitors, and now allows two of our other children to touch him.
Although, if asked,
he would have nay-sayed the idea of a companion, Matuchas presence has
enhanced his life. Not only is he friendlier, but hes more active, too.
His heart health and weight have been bettered by the company of his
sibling.
Furthermore, when
all of us cat companions leave our home for errands, social events, or
what-have-you, he has a buddy with whom to destroy, I mean explore, the bright,
open spaces, and dark, secure places in our apartment. Whereas his solo reign
had ended, the emperor and his empire have improved.